“When you fall in love with yourself, everything else falls into place”
Hi, I’m Deborah Jane Wells, and I’m a Life Coach. I help people who are stuck in the “hamster wheel” approach to life. Trapped by the mistaken belief that busy-ness is the same as purpose, they can’t stand the way they’re living, but feel powerless to stop.
As we work together, my clients discover that when they fall in love with themselves, everything else falls into place. They get unstuck, reclaim their personal power and recapture their zest for living — moving themselves forward into lives they love.
When I began branding my practice “Discover the Love of Your Life — YOU!™”, many people told me they feel distinctly uncomfortable with that idea.
They tell me it feels selfish to think in those terms. That we are supposed to love and care for “our neighbor.” I remind them we are also supposed to “love our neighbor as ourselves.” And many of us would end up in court or in prison if we treated our neighbors the way we treat ourselves.
One of my clients talks openly about how she came to terms with this specific issue through the work we did together. She had a lifetime of experience with putting others first and didn’t understand why she was struggling with weight problems and depression. Her story is called The Lesson of the Oxygen Mask, and it’s available on my web site, along with other stories my clients have shared. As her story and so many others make clear, when we spend our lives not taking care of ourselves, eventually we’re no good to ourselves or anyone else.
You will find my credentials on my web site and on LinkedIn. They will tell you about my training and professionalism.
But my clients tell you what it’s like to work with me. Their stories share a common thread as each client experiences the opportunity to work with a coach who is committed to connecting with them on the basis of Love, Respect, Curiosity, Compassion and Gratitude.
Bottom line? It’s not just okay to fall in love with yourself. It’s essential. When you fall in love with yourself, everything else finally falls into place. This transformation arises from a fundamental shift in your head and heart. Find out how you can make it a reality in your life too.
Thanks for stopping by. I wish you blessings on your Journey, wherever it takes you.
